Ralph Douglas West · The Church Without Walls · 5725 Queenston Blvd., Houston, Texas 77084 · Published June 17, 2026
Berean Standard Bible (public domain).
0:11 This is the day the Lord has made. We rejoice. And we are glad in it. Thank you, choir, for blessing us today. I really believe that many times this church takes for granted what happens here on Sunday morning. We just... Assume it's going to be like that and you hear such great music every week until you grow accustomed to grace. But don't take it for granted. Don't take it for granted.
1:04 Matthew chapter 18 beginning at verse 1. Just a word of emphasis on our children for today as we prepare for the summer. Jesus gives us a glimpse of what it looks like. to enter into the kingdom of God. Hear God's word for God's people here at the church with our walls. at that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked him who then is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven called a little child to him and placed a child among them and said truly I tell you unless you change and become like a little child you'll never enter into the kingdom of heaven therefore whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven and whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me.
2:19 This is the word of God. You may be seated. Jesus was always addressing some dilemma That had taken place along the road In one way or another I need you to get the sound adjusted for me Yeah, get it ready Look up, don't keep your head down Pay attention to me Yeah, there you go, let's start over again So Jesus was always dealing with some dilemma along the road. Questions were always being thrown at him in one direction or another. and he was always being challenged to answer something that he had already answered months and probably a year earlier particularly about the role of the kingdom and where you are situated in that kingdom he was always trying to explain it sometimes he did it by saying the kingdom of God was like a sower that sows seed Or sometimes the kingdom of God was like a mustard seed that grew into the largest plant in the garden.
3:44 Or maybe the kingdom of God was like a great pearl beyond price. But he was always trying to shed light on what it meant to live in the kingdom. To understand what the kingdom of God was like. You might be like that sometimes. At 8 o'clock, nobody do what the kingdom of God was.
4:08 And I would dare to say that you are their relatives. I always enjoy the people that know everything about everything and turn out they don't know much about anything. You spend literally a lifetime understanding all the implications surrounding this business about the kingdom of God. One reason the difficulty of understanding the kingdom of God, We don't live in a monocracy. We don't live in a minarchy.
4:46 We live in a democracy, a republic. So when you look at it on political terms, it's kind of difficult to grasp, particularly when these disciples were asking questions about the kingdom. They would look in one direction and they would think about the apogee of intelligence over in Athens and think about the Socratic philosophers, the Platonic dealers who dealt with the extreme themes of life and thought about the greatness of the intelligent. Then there were those who knew something about the acme of political power in Rome. They would look at the Caesars and their surrogates spread throughout provinces, particularly those that were around Galilee and then what about the religionists the Pharisees and the priests and the high priests so there's no question that you would begin asking well who's the greatest in the kingdom that was the question that was on the lips of those who were with Jesus then well who then is the greatest in the kingdom Now, there's no need in you pretending that you don't understand that question.
6:07 We're approaching the NBA finals, and for the last 20 years, the question on the lips of sports enthusiasts around the NBA want to know one question. Who's the greatest? Now, depending on what team you like will bias your opinion. If you're a Bulls fan, then Michael Jordan is the greatest.
6:37 If you like, I wish I can get you to sound like that. When I talk about Jesus, I declare. I would pay to give one shout for Jesus. Just one, you know. Yeah, I know that's right. Yeah, it's like, yeah, people. I bet it all depends. Big fights break out between fans who never get paid a dime from the team. Maybe you're talking about records and scores, then the greatest is Bill Russell. You sit down and you...so it really determines what gauge you're using on who's the greatest. Yeah, I mean, you like rowdy basketball, it's the bad boys.
7:36 You like finesse, it's the Lakers. High scoring, then it's the Warriors. It just depends on perspective, what gauge. And so here when the disciples were asking who's the greatest, they were not asking politically, intellectually or religiously. They wanted to know from he who had come presenting himself as king, just tell us who is the greatest in the kingdom and this reigning place where God rules and executes his righteousness.
8:10 Now, you know and I know, we got an advantage that those who asked the question didn't have, and that is we have the written document in front of us, but if you could stretch your imagination for a moment, you know exactly how they thought, even though they had been with Jesus, how you answer a question like that. You answer it based off of the illustrations that I just used. They were waiting on a theological discourse. They were waiting on some kind of philosophical injection from this young, charismatic, brilliant teacher.
8:56 Now without some who were just sitting there, you know, just picking their fingernails, scratching their heads, and just saying like a lot of you this morning, who cares? but the disciples cared.
9:18 They were interested, and so they were waiting, and so Jesus is about to answer, and you know how he's gonna answer. He's gonna say, well, over in Greece, you have these philosophers, or if you look over to Rome, then you have these Caesars. Just look at our own country. You have this high priest, but that's not what Jesus did. of all the things that he could have done, he sees a child in the crowd and just reaches for it. Now, you love children.
9:58 We love children. Children are a premium in our country. Not so then. Children were a nuisance. Now all of them who were complaining had one time been a child. but now that they've survived being a child now children have become this big nuisance this is true this is not made up this is understanding the world that they were in so for Jesus to grab a child and hold this child up before them as he called them and placed them I probably only knew you And then he says, unless you change like a child. These people have just come out of adolescence.
10:56 They are no way trying to go back to that world. To go back to where you're devalued, no way. And Jesus says, in order for you to understand the kingdom, you have to change like a child. that's a prohibition in some sense. And that's where entering the kingdom starts at this level of prohibition. Stay with me now.
11:32 I know I'm not telling you how to get a new set of tires or meet a man or woman, but this is better than that. If you get this straight, you can meet who you want to. And so, he says, it's all about getting into the kingdom. And so, what's the key? He says, well, you have to, if you want to access the kingdom, you have to become a child. If you're going to enter the kingdom, you have to become a child. That's your ticket of admittance into becoming like a child, being changed like a child. not childish but like a child I like children. I like being around children. Probably more so now.
12:29 I wasn't the best dad, but I'm a great granddad. The Lord has given me another chance to get it right. I've apologized to my children for blowing it with them. I have. I'm sorry I blew it. But I'm batting 110.
12:54 There you go. Because children are fascinating. They say the durnest things. And they have a way of helping you to become like a child.
13:14 Do you remember the experiment of the Olympia butterfly? I know you do. I'll never forget it. In elementary school when Ms. Johnson would talk about a caterpillar. And I knew caterpillars from where we grew up on Pig Fair Street. I knew in Fifth Ward, we hadn't killed all of them, but we knew.
13:48 And how they climb in this cocoon, I remember that. And you do too. And they live in the darkness and they struggle against the walls of the cocoon. You don't help them out because if you do, you could retard that growth. You could damage them if you try to help them out. So they have to grow into this uncomfortable space of darkness and that's how they get strong. That's how their wings get strong. I blew it as a dad. A lot of things I had experienced growing up, I didn't know.
14:40 I didn't want my children to have to experience. You know, I know none of you relate to this. But I grew up, many of you know, you've heard my personal story in a particular way that I didn't want my children to grow up that way.
15:03 And I had a chance to tell them not long ago these words I'm going to say to you. I said, if I could do it again, I probably wouldn't have given you anything. Hey, I'm not asking, let me say this to you, because I've been doing this all my life. Since I was 20 years old, I've been a pastor, so I know people pretty well. I didn't ask you to agree with me or disagree with me. I'm not using my story to cast an aspersion toward you. Get over yourself. I'm talking about me. And I have my reasons for why I said that. Because like that caterpillar in the darkness, outgrowing that space, I rob my children of some things by not letting them bump their wings in a way to strengthen them in a particular way.
16:11 But I'm a great granddad because I don't give my grandson anything. He has to work for every single thing that he gets from me because I don't want to damage his wings. Bring the child to me and accept you come to the kingdom like a child. Starts with a prohibition, but it continues now with a definition how Jesus defines this whole business of coming like a child. Not childish, but like a child. He says that the definition of what I'm using for children is that you become like a child. you become like a child.
17:20 Come here for a minute. I know exactly what Jesus means by becoming like a child. For the last two years, I appreciate it. I didn't say it publicly because I didn't need any of you passing out. But for the last two years, I mean two whole years, I've been sitting in a class learning again.
17:59 And I've sit in a classroom seminar with everybody in the class, including except for maybe one professor, but every student could call me, yes sir. They're in their 20s. I've enjoyed this for two years, 12, 13 seminars.
18:26 I've sat in class with people as young as 22, 23. Can you imagine me in a class with some 22-year-old? I wouldn't let them call me Dr. West.
18:51 Some of them knew that I would teach. One of my students who I taught stopped me in the hallway and said, Dr. West, is it true? In a whispered tone, I said, what Luke? Is it true? I said, what? He said, you back in school? I said yes he said why I said, because I want to become like a little child. So I don't let them call me Dr. West, I say call me Ralph. And the world that they've exposed me to, come here,
19:50 has been so beautiful to watch them teach me. I literally don't say a lot in any seminar, except for when I absolutely must say something. Other than that, I'm there watching them shape me into looking at the world in such a new and very beautiful and magical and attractive way. So I know what it means to become like a child. Jesus is saying to those of us, not chronologically in age, he's saying to those of us who have been in Christ and think we know so much, Can you humble yourself to enter and re-enter into the kingdom where you get excited once again when you take the Lord's Supper, when you watch a baptism, when you hear the choir sing, when somebody greets you? or have you gotten so old in the kingdom that nothing excites you anymore?
21:02 And some of the oldest people I know are 20 and 30 and 40 years old that think because they grew up in church, they got a monopoly on God and his grace. But I don't ever want to get like that. I want to always make myself open to the moving of God's spirit. preach Pastor West. I buried Lindsay O'Hart yesterday. The jail had been with us, I don't know how long, it looked like it'd been here forever. He was one of the founders of our salt ministry. He lived to be 90 years old. And when you talked about him, everybody laughed because of his signature move in church, which now I won't say.
22:14 But everybody that encountered Hart knew, Brother Hart. and heart stay with me he lived to the end he was just at church the other Sunday pushing his way. He would get up, for those of you who come to church regularly,
22:43 he's the man that would get up before the benediction on his walker and he's bending forward, getting out before the crowd. That was Lizelle Hart. Dear what I said yesterday after the funeral to people, as we were talking, Lizelle lived to be 90.
23:04 I said, I ain't gonna let no 90-year-old outlive me. I'm going somewhere. I know I got to unpack that. Some of you are 20 in your 30s, in your 40s, and you letting folks 70 and 80 years old outlive you. And some of you in your 50s and 60s and 70s, you done just gave up, not me. I'm entering the kingdom this morning like a child to give all of what God has given to me in a new and brand new way. That's what Jesus was getting to.
24:02 Can you humble yourself to a point in which you don't have to be number one? I've enjoyed it. Walking around all them young people with my book bag. I never put on my Greek attire but one day I put on my big old Greek sweater older than they are and I was invited with the frat they said hey man
25:01 HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA One young man, a brother said, man, you still remember? I said, yeah, yeah, I remember. I said, come on, let's go there.
25:24 I said, let's go there. Let's go there. You ain't said nothing, let's go. to become like a child? Do you have the humility to become like that? I'm done. And the last thing was when Jesus said this to these disciples and the last thing, he said, you know, whoever welcomes such a child in my name welcomes me. Whoever welcomes one of these children welcomes me. Now Those of you who are brand new here Normally People would talk about Pastor West The preacher, the preacher Say now what you have to understand Is that Pastor West is a lot more preacher My heart is my members I'm a pastor now So let me be a little pastoral now Because I saw something today And I don't want you to ever do this anymore I watched some of you at welcome time, and I've seen this two or three times.
26:39 You do greet each other if you know each other. And I watched this morning, and the interns were introduced and you were fellowshiped, nobody turned and spoke to them. I said, I want two people back here who waved up. And they spoke, but a lot of you passed right by. That's why I came out the pulpit. No, you know me, no. They say he can't hold his feelings. I've traveled around the world and I've been to church and one thing that I've always not enjoyed about people is the people that only greet you if they know you that's not the temperament of our church but you got to watch when people get put in certain positions they'll create an environment that's antithetical to who you are don't do that anymore you don't know who you seated next to God bless you, you don't know who you seated next to and you don't know who might need your touch that morning that give them the strength that they need.
27:55 Now, I know we live in a culture. I know we live in this culture, too. This last past week, I said, I had to say to two people, I said, did you know when you apply for this job that it entailed working with people? I said it. Because where I was seated gave me permission to say it. I said, come here, I need to ask you something. Did you know when you applied for this job that you would have to work with people? And she said, yes, sir. I said, well, why are you acting like we are annoying you? We the reason you got a job. A preacher asked me the other day, he said, this is God's on the tree.
28:54 He said, Pastor West, do you mind shaking hands? I said, y'all shake hands in your church? He said, yeah. I said, I'd love to. He said, because I'm so tired of going to church where they're running you out the door. As if touching the people, tell them, The only reason why we do what we do in ministry is to touch the life of other people. That's it. You don't preach to robots. I'm done now.
29:25 It's an invitation. It's a prohibition. It's a definition. And finally, it's an invitation. Welcome them in Jesus' name. And when you do that, you invite Jesus to come in. I just gave you a formula on how to get excitement back in your life. If you invite others to Jesus. You can't help but get excited.
29:58 Now, for those of you who have guessed, the church know I can say I'm done all day, but until that book close, they say he ain't done. Boy, your pastor preached real short, said that Bible's still open. Say, don't get happy. He ain't sitting down until that Bible close. Now, when that book close, he really is done.
30:24 And so the closing invitation is the invitation that Jesus made to a grown man who really embodies Matthew 18. This is the invitation. Nicodemus came to Jesus one night And asked him How do I inherit eternal life? How do I get into the kingdom? And Jesus said these words Verily, verily I say unto you You must be born again the language that Jesus used so confused Nicodemus he said I am an old man I you could say I'm an old man I'm an older woman how can I have lived a whole life and be born again Jesus says you're thinking of flesh and blood I'm talking about spirit I'm talking about you must be born from above.
31:40 And when you are born from above, God will make you brand new. And old things will have passed away. And behold, all things will have become new. I'm saying that to somebody today. you live with guilt and shame and hurt and even though I said that you said man you don't know what I have done in my life and my answer to you number one I don't want to know and I recommend you don't tell nobody but there is one that you can tell it to and your secret is safe with him and God knows how to give you a brand new start. In fact, God knows how to rip that chapter out of your book and put blank pages and put a new pen and say, now write you a new story.
32:38 Blessed assurance, Jesus is mine. Oh, what a foretaste of glory divine. I'm an heir of salvation, purchase of God, born of his spirit, washed in his blood. this is my story. Hey, this is my song. Praising my Savior all the day long. Yeah. This morning you can do that. You can write a brand new story for your life. You can tell them, look at me. I'm a testimony. should have been dead and gone, but the Lord never left me alone. Aren't you excited about that? If you've been born again, if you've been made new, if you've been washed in his blood, if you've been filled with his spirit in your own way, you ought to give God praise today. Not for me, not because I asked you, but because it's the right thing to do.
33:49 And this will be a good time when you do it and your children say, what are you doing up there clapping and shouting and waving your hand? Tell them because I've been born again. Oh, hallelujah. Hallelujah. Hallelujah. Hallelujah. Hallelujah. Lord we thank you for making us new for giving us a new life and a new future and a new hope thank you for that help us never to grow and take it for granted help us when we walk through the doors of this room we come in this place Saying Lord I look around I see when I surveyed a wondrous cross I think of what you've done for me.
34:51 Thank you, Lord. For those of us already in Christ and the kingdom, we just say thank you. For those today, Lord, who are in the kingdom but they've strayed away from their responsibility, their rights, and doing what you called them to do, or for those who have never tasted of your amazing grace, As the choir prepares to sing and leaders take the aisle, just moving away for them without debate, negotiation, discussion, get up from that seat and say today is my day. Today is my day. For some today, Lord, when they come forward, it's them simply saying thank you, Lord, for remembering me. Thank you for not casting me away.
35:44 and Lord as they make that way down now we'll give your name the praise and the glory and honor for everything that you're doing in the strong name of Jesus Amen, give God praise today church, come on the door to churches
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